Sexual satisfaction is at it's lowest for couples who have kids under five. Sleepless nights, changes to our bodies, identities and priorities mean that the passion of before can start to feel like a distant memory. But how can you retain a great sexual connection even when you have little time for sex? How can you make sure that you still feel like sexual partners not just strung out co-parents at the end of it all? This workshop is designed to help you take apart your sex life and put it back together in a way that will add to your relationship and sexual satisfaction over time using small changes that have big effects.

Meet the workshop facilitator


Dr Karen Gurney is a highly specialised clinical psychologist and a European Society of Sexual Medicine certified psychosexologist.

She is a recognised national expert in the theory and practice of therapy around all aspects of sexual wellbeing and function and wrote and pioneered one of the first online interventions translating principles of sex therapy into online modules 10 years ago.

She is currently Lead Psychologist in sexual health. gender and sexual difficulties for the NHS at Europe's busiest sexual health clinic - 56 Dean Street, as well as Director of The Havelock Clinic, an independent sexual problems service based on Harley Street and in The City of London. Dr Gurney has almost 20 years experience of providing therapy round all aspects of people's sex lives.

Dr Gurney has written for and been featured in publications such as The Times, Cosmopolitan and Refinery29, and provided expert opinions on TV and radio for the BBC. She is a TEDx speaker, having spoken about 'The surprising truth about desire' in 2020.

Dr Gurney's book, 'Mind The Gap: the truth about desire and how to futureproof your sex life' was out in 2020 and was a best seller .

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£65

How to not let having kids ruin your sex life

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Downloadable bite sized sessions available on
demand to fit into hectic lives


For couples of all sexualities, no matter how your kids arrived in your lives


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Informative expert led videos to get you thinking and talking tasks deigned to help you find workable solutions