Maintaining desire in a relationship with the same partner over time is challenging for many people. In fact, issues around sexual desire, or differences in desire within a couple are the top reason people seek sex therapy. The science around desire is startling, and knowing how desire works is the key to being in the driving seat of how you want desire to feature in your relationship moving forward. We give you all the knowledge and skills you need to understand how desire is currently featuring in your relationship (and why), and how to build a step by step plan to get it to feature in the way you'd like.


Course Curriculum

  Understanding desire and why this matters to you and your relationship
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  The truth about desire
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  Understanding how desire plays out (or doesn't) in your relationship
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  What's getting in the way of your desire and how to overcome this
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  Bringing this all together, and continuing to make progress
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Meet the workshop facilitator


Dr Karen Gurney is a highly specialised clinical psychologist and a European Society of Sexual Medicine certified psychosexologist.

She is a recognised national expert in the theory and practice of therapy around all aspects of sexual wellbeing and function and wrote and pioneered one of the first online interventions translating principles of sex therapy into online modules 10 years ago.

She is currently Lead Psychologist in sexual health. gender and sexual difficulties for the NHS at Europe's busiest sexual health clinic - 56 Dean Street, as well as Director of The Havelock Clinic, an independent sexual problems service based on Harley Street and in The City of London. Dr Gurney has almost 20 years experience of providing therapy round all aspects of people's sex lives.

Dr Gurney has written for and been featured in publications such as The Times, Cosmopolitan and Refinery29, and provided expert opinions on TV and radio for the BBC. She is a TEDx speaker, having spoken about 'The surprising truth about desire' in 2020.

Dr Gurney's book, 'Mind The Gap: the truth about desire and how to futureproof your sex life' was out in 2020 and was a best seller .

Select a pricing plan and sign up

£195

Paid Course

3 payments of £65/month

Monthly payment plan

Three installments

Completing all of the sessions in these five comprehensive modules and the tasks attached to them should take you about 12 weeks to complete if you complete them in the way we suggest. We'd like to give you the option to split your payment over these 12 weeks if that suits you.

Watch alone or with your partner, and re watch session as often as you like


Putting you in the driving seat of how you want desire to feature in your relationship


Includes startling science you MUST know about how your own desire works